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The Ultimate Guide to Finding Where to Focus Your Time And Energy
Read this to Avoid feeling regret in the Future
Treat your life like a smartphone.
It is up to you to customize your life in ways that make it more useful, just like you do with your smartphone. Most people face life crises because of one particular factor — regret.
Regret on career choices, relationships, etc. We can fit the brackets of what society calls success, but if the process is draining our energy, we die inside. In a sense, finding your optimal use of time and energy is a personal obligation.
Experimenting
If life was infinite, the idea of experimenting with different paths of life wouldn’t be so scary.
But society rules state that you have to figure something out by age___ (fill the blank). Sadly, the age to figure everything out is getting lower with the boom of social media flex. Society provides brackets of the best options likely to help one survive, to speed up the process of figuring out what you should do with your life.
Seeking for what you want is discouraged because most think it’s wasting time — you could just follow what’s been preset by those before you.
